Le Wand

Le Wand has not seen waves of popularity among sex bloggers, so my interest in it was hesitant at best. However, my recent move into my own space with super sex positive housemates brought the Magic Wand Rechargeable into my life as such  a staple that I jokingly started referring to it as my “primary […]

CineKink NYC 2017

I spent last week in New York City, exploring the city and attending CineKink NYC 2017, a film festival based around sex positivity and the erotic and sensual. Due to the impending blizzard, the first night’s festivities were postponed indefinitely, which meant I instead  spent the day inside with CATS, food, and my favorite, sex-positive, […]

‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’ Made Me Gay

Update: Since writing this post, my pronouns have changed to they/them. However, what I wrote here is important, and was the start of my ~gender journey~ “I don’t really get this,” my amazing & talented editor commented on a sentence in my NYTC Shilo review. She continued “But maybe that’s because I’m really cis.” That […]

Tom of Finland Hammer/Nightstick Vibe

I laughed at the Tom of Finland Hammer/Nightstick Vibe when I first saw it while working a Tom of Finland party at The Pleasure Chest. I laughed in a way that said, “Of COURSE there’s a vibrator shaped like a hammer/nightstick.” Of course companies like OxBalls make a variety of creative insertables (including the Alien […]