Le Wand has not seen waves of popularity among sex bloggers, so my interest in it was hesitant at best. However, my recent move into my own space with super sex positive housemates brought the Magic Wand Rechargeable into my life as such a staple that I jokingly started referring to it as my “primary […]
L’Amourose Prism V
I am, at the very least, slightly cursed when it comes to L’Amourose toys. A bit of backstory: I wanted a L’Amourose Rosa after AFemmeCock’s review, so I put it at the top of my wishlist. When I became an affiliate with Betty’s Toy Box, they offered to send one for review. I gleefully accepted […]
The Sex Expo 2017
I once again attended the Sex Expo in NYC this year (rebranded from its previous title, The Sexual Health Expo), held in the Brooklyn Expo Center. I only attended one day this year, and the first thing I noticed was the expo center itself: it seems the whole building had been redone, with painted bricks […]
Spareparts Tomboi Harness
Sometimes when I picture myself naked, I’m wearing something. Sure I look at myself naked almost daily, but when I imagine having my most ideal sex, it usually involves a harness. The harness in play is generally my Spareparts Joque, which allows me to both penetrate and be penetrated. But when my dysphoria is at […]
Migliori Silicone Lube
I am not someone who generally uses lube. I wholeheartedly support and encourage lube purchase and use. I have about seven bottles of it on my nightstand and countless samples stored with my condoms. But unless I am engaging in anal play, I don’t need lube. I’m lucky. My body produces enough natural lubricant that […]
CineKink NYC 2017
I spent last week in New York City, exploring the city and attending CineKink NYC 2017, a film festival based around sex positivity and the erotic and sensual. Due to the impending blizzard, the first night’s festivities were postponed indefinitely, which meant I instead spent the day inside with CATS, food, and my favorite, sex-positive, […]
NELA Fetish Fair Fleamarket 2017
Heads up! A paragraph in this recap talk about bugs on body parts, so if this squicks you, be sure to avoid that section. I’ll leave a BOLD note before and after in case you’d still like to read the rest of the recap! I am still unpacking (both mentally and physically) from the New […]
‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’ Made Me Gay
Update: Since writing this post, my pronouns have changed to they/them. However, what I wrote here is important, and was the start of my ~gender journey~ “I don’t really get this,” my amazing & talented editor commented on a sentence in my NYTC Shilo review. She continued “But maybe that’s because I’m really cis.” That […]
We-Vibe Nova
I get confused about a lot of things. Like how to use an STP without peeing on my own legs, why the zippers are on the back of Star Trek TNG uniforms, why glitter cheers me up so much, and a lot more. But I didn’t think I was confused about what kinds of stimulation […]
Tom of Finland Hammer/Nightstick Vibe
I laughed at the Tom of Finland Hammer/Nightstick Vibe when I first saw it while working a Tom of Finland party at The Pleasure Chest. I laughed in a way that said, “Of COURSE there’s a vibrator shaped like a hammer/nightstick.” Of course companies like OxBalls make a variety of creative insertables (including the Alien […]