Dame Products’ Fin was the first sex toy allowed on Kickstarter andsubsequently the first toy successfully funded on Kickstarter as well. Crowdfunding sex toys is often a Mistake™ but Dame does their advertisements and marketing really well. And the chance to get this cute, uniquely colored vibe at a steep discount was enough for me […]
Guide to Beginner Butt Plugs
I’m not an anal expert by any means, but I’d say I know my way around the average butthole. Given that I’m known around friends as the resident sex toy expert, I’m often asked for my recommendations on beginner butt toys. So why not create a list of recommendations that I can easily link folks […]
The Womanizer W500 Pro
Look, my tinder bio reads “I probably have more vibrators than friends.” This naturally invites questions about my toy collection and I’m often asked if I have a favorite. I don’t. I have several go-to pieces but it really depends how I’m feeling at the moment. I was asked once about my most expensive piece. […]
Le Wand
Le Wand has not seen waves of popularity among sex bloggers, so my interest in it was hesitant at best. However, my recent move into my own space with super sex positive housemates brought the Magic Wand Rechargeable into my life as such a staple that I jokingly started referring to it as my “primary […]
L’Amourose Prism V
I am, at the very least, slightly cursed when it comes to L’Amourose toys. A bit of backstory: I wanted a L’Amourose Rosa after AFemmeCock’s review, so I put it at the top of my wishlist. When I became an affiliate with Betty’s Toy Box, they offered to send one for review. I gleefully accepted […]
The Sex Expo 2017
I once again attended the Sex Expo in NYC this year (rebranded from its previous title, The Sexual Health Expo), held in the Brooklyn Expo Center. I only attended one day this year, and the first thing I noticed was the expo center itself: it seems the whole building had been redone, with painted bricks […]
Spareparts Tomboi Harness
Sometimes when I picture myself naked, I’m wearing something. Sure I look at myself naked almost daily, but when I imagine having my most ideal sex, it usually involves a harness. The harness in play is generally my Spareparts Joque, which allows me to both penetrate and be penetrated. But when my dysphoria is at […]
Migliori Silicone Lube
I am not someone who generally uses lube. I wholeheartedly support and encourage lube purchase and use. I have about seven bottles of it on my nightstand and countless samples stored with my condoms. But unless I am engaging in anal play, I don’t need lube. I’m lucky. My body produces enough natural lubricant that […]
CineKink NYC 2017
I spent last week in New York City, exploring the city and attending CineKink NYC 2017, a film festival based around sex positivity and the erotic and sensual. Due to the impending blizzard, the first night’s festivities were postponed indefinitely, which meant I instead spent the day inside with CATS, food, and my favorite, sex-positive, […]
NELA Fetish Fair Fleamarket 2017
Heads up! A paragraph in this recap talk about bugs on body parts, so if this squicks you, be sure to avoid that section. I’ll leave a BOLD note before and after in case you’d still like to read the rest of the recap! I am still unpacking (both mentally and physically) from the New […]