For the sake of argument, let’s say you have a huge, colorful, maybe even fantasy-themed dildo–one that validates your gender, or that your partner is obsessed with, or is central to a super hot roleplay idea that you’re really jonesing to do. But how do you fuck with it hands-free? Enter the Ramshine Harness.
Sometimes when I picture myself naked, I’m wearing something. Sure I look at myself naked almost daily, but when I imagine having my most ideal sex, it usually involves a harness. The harness in play is generally my Spareparts Joque, which allows me to both penetrate and be penetrated. But when my dysphoria is at […]